Parent Faces Internet Haters for Spending First Night in College Dorm with Daughter
In a world where parenting decisions are constantly scrutinized and criticized, it’s no surprise that another parent has found themselves facing internet haters. This time, it’s mom of three, Lori Miggins, who shared a viral Instagram reel offering a tip to fellow parents of new college students: spend the first night with them.
At first glance, this may seem like an unconventional idea, but when you consider the context, it completely changes the story. Miggins’ daughter is a college athlete who moved in earlier than most students, and her roommate’s bed was available. Miggins used her own bedding, got permission from her daughter’s roommate, and most importantly, her daughter wanted her to stay the night.
The backlash Miggins received for her actions highlights a common theme in parenting: the judgment and criticism from others. People online called her actions “gross” and “weird,” but where is the harm in a mother wanting to make her child’s first night in an unfamiliar place more comfortable and memorable?
As a mom myself, I see nothing wrong with what Miggins did. It’s a beautiful display of a close mother-daughter bond and a creative way to support her daughter through a major life transition. The positive comments Miggins received from other parents who have done something similar only reinforce the idea that supporting kids through transitions looks different for every family.
Psychologist Emily Guarnotta emphasizes the importance of not judging parents for their approach, as every child and family dynamic is different. Miggins echoes this sentiment, stating that every family should do what works best for them, even if it goes against the norm.
In a world where parenting decisions are constantly under a microscope, it’s important to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all approach. What works for one family may not work for another, and that’s perfectly okay. So, let’s celebrate the diversity of parenting styles and support each other in the ways that work best for our families.